“When they had bathed and washed themselves, they reclined to dine with large servings of food before them. Then Tobias said to Raphael.
Ask Raguel to give me my kinswoman Sarah.’
However, Raguel overhead it. He said to the lad.
‘Eat and drink!
Be merry tonight!
No one except you, brother,
Has the right to marry my daughter Sarah.
Likewise, I am not at liberty to give her to any other man than you Because you are my nearest relative.
But let me explain to you the true situation more fully, my child.
I have given her to seven of our kinsmen.
They all died on the night when they went in to her.
But now, my child, eat and drink.
The Lord shall act on behalf of you both.’”
Clearly the father had complete control of the marriage. Tobias wanted Raphael to make the proposal to Raguel, the father of Sarah. However, Raguel overheard them talking. He told them to eat, drink, and be merry. There was no problem since Tobit was the only one available to marry her. Raguel then recounted that all 7 kinsmen before him had all died on the wedding night. That is why they should enjoy tonight. Everything will be all right in time.