“A woman
Will accept any man
As a husband.
But one girl
Is preferable to another.
A woman’s beauty
Lights up a man’s face.
There is nothing
He desires more.
If kindness marks her speech,
If humility marks her speech,
Her husband is more fortunate
Than other men.
He who acquires a wife
Gets his best possession.
She is a helper
Fit for him.
She is a pillar of support.
Where there is no fence,
The property will be plundered.
Where there is no wife,
A man will become a fugitive.
He will be a wanderer.
Who will trust a nimble robber?
He skips from city to city.
Who will trust a man
That has no nest?
He lodges
Wherever night overtakes him.”
Sirach seems to think that women do not care who they marry. However, a man should marry a beautiful woman, because it will light up his face. Then he will not desire anything more. If she is kind and humble in her speech, he will be more fortunate than many other men. She will help him and be a support to him. There is no doubt that a man’s best possession is his wife. Clearly, she is a step above a slave as a possession. It is also a good idea for a man to have a wife because she can act like a fence around him. If he is not married, he will wander around from city to city, like a fugitive. People will think that he is a robber, since he has no home. He will not be trusted because he stays wherever he is when night time comes. Marriage added stability to a community.