“Fathers!
Do not provoke
Your children
To anger!
But bring them up
In the discipline
And instruction
Of the Lord.”
Καὶ οἱ πατέρες, μὴ παροργίζετε τὰ τέκνα ὑμῶν, ἀλλὰ ἐκτρέφετε αὐτὰ ἐν παιδείᾳ καὶ νουθεσίᾳ Κυρίου.
Paul said, “Fathers (Καὶ οἱ πατέρες)! Do not provoke (μὴ παροργίζετε) your children (τὰ τέκνα ὑμῶν) to anger! But bring them up (ἀλλὰ ἐκτρέφετε αὐτὰ) in the discipline (ἐν παιδείᾳ) and instruction (καὶ νουθεσίᾳ) of the Lord (Κυρίου).” Only the Pauline letter used this word παροργίζετε, that means to provoke to anger or exasperate, and the word παιδείᾳ, that means rearing a child, training, discipline, education or instruction, as well as the word νουθεσίᾳ, that means admonition, warning, or counsel. Only this Ephesian letter used this unique word ἐκτρέφετε, that means to bring up to maturity, to nourish, or to nurture. Paul reminded the fathers among the early Christian communities that they should not provoke their children to anger or exasperate them. They were to bring up their children or nourish them with a disciplined education and warnings of the Lord Jesus Christ. They should be brought up as young Christians. The fathers were responsible for the moral and intellectual development of their children in the Christian way. How did you raise your children?