“When a sieve is shaken,
The refuse remains.
Thus a person’s faults appear
When he speaks.
The kiln tests
The potter’s vessels.
Thus the test of a person
Is in his conversation.
The fruit discloses
The cultivation of a tree.
Thus a person’s speech
Discloses the cultivation of his mind.
Do not praise anyone
Before he speaks.
This is the way people are tested.”
When cooking, people often use a sieve to only let the good grains go through. So when a sieve is shaken, the refuse remains. In the same way, when a person speaks, their faults appear. Just as a potter’s work is finished or tested in the furnace kiln, so too human conversation is a test. Just as the fruit of a tree reveals how well the tree was cultivated, so too a person’s speech reveals how his or her mind has been cultivated. Thus you should not praise anyone until they have spoken. Human conversation is how we test each other.